Q. A friend of
mine says it’s ok to use two condoms at the same time “just to be
extra safe”. Is this right?
A. No. Using two
at once will increase the chance of them breaking, so just use one.
Q. Are stronger
condoms better than standard ones?
A. There is little
difference between them, and studies have shown that they are both
effective if used correctly. It is more a case of which you prefer to
use.
Q. What are
spermicides used for and should I use condoms or lubricant that have
them added?
A. Spermicides are
added to some condoms when they are made, to help lubricate them and
they are sometimes added to lube too. It is best to avoid any product
(condom or lube) that has an ingredient called nonoxynol-9 in it, as
it can irritate the lining of the rectum, increasing the risk of STIs
and HIV transmission.
Q. Will condoms
protect me against Hepatitis?
A. There are
different kinds of Viral Hepatitis (A, B, C through to G), which can
all be transmitted sexually, as well as by other means. Using condoms
can help prevent sexual transmission. There are vaccinations for A and
B but not for C.
Q. I met a guy
last week who wanted me to use a femidom when we had sex, aren’t they
meant just for women?
A. Femidoms
(female condoms) were designed to be used by women, but some men use
them. They can be worn like a standard condom on the penis, or
inserted into the partner. Removing the inner ring before insertion
will make it more comfortable and reduce the risk of rectal trauma and
bleeding. They do provide an effective barrier during anal sex, but
can still slip out and break, just like standard condoms. If you are
in any doubt, and are not comfortable using it, then use a standard
one instead.
Q. Can I get the
right size to fit me?
A. There are
lots of different condoms in different lengths and widths, but if you
are not sure what size condom will fit, try different ones and see
which is most comfortable. Latex rubber is very stretchy!
Q. Do I need to
use a condom for oral sex?
A. Some STIs can
be transmitted by oral sex, and condoms or dental dams (small sheets
of rubber used for anal/oral sex or vaginal/oral sex) can be used to
reduce the risk of you getting one. There are flavoured condoms you
can try. The risk of HIV transmission via oral sex is lower than
unprotected anal or vaginal sex. The risks are increased if there are
cuts or sores in your mouth, another STI present, genital sores or
bleeding gums. But if you are in any doubt then it is best to use a
condom or dental dam. If you are able to, talk to your sexual partner
about the kind of sex you are comfortable with or if you have any
doubts.
Q. What do I do if
a condom breaks?
A. If a condom
breaks during sex, then stop and replace it straight away. If you have
already ejaculated and you feel that either you or your partner has
been put at risk and are worried, then call the National Sexual Health
Line on Free phone 0800 567 123 (calls may be charged if made from
mobile phones) 24 hours a day for advice. You can also visit a health
adviser at your GUM clinic. Go to the links page where you will find links
for clinics.
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CHAPS have launched a new campaign reminding men to get it on when they have sex.
Adverts featuring sexy new imagery will be appearing in the major gay press in England and Wales and outreach workers will be in gay venues around the country to talk to men about condom use.
For more information on Get It On visit www.chapsonline.org.uk/getiton where you will find tips on condom use, how to overcome problems with condoms, and advice on where to buy cheap condoms.
